ladydouji

And the shit has hit the fan. My mom has gotten word that Carolyn is not very welcome at the show. and I had this in my inbox when I came home from work,
"I'm really p!ssed about this I invited Debbie and Carolyn so we all could go
to Cats- have talked to Carolyn about going to the show- and now she doesn't
want to take carolyn after I paid over $50 dollars a ticket. I even asked
her before I bought the tickets. If i couls sell all the tickets for what I
paid for them I;m so mad right now I would.
Maybe because I have taken Carolyn to shows I believe this in one that she
is capable of enjoying.
If you and Debbie what to pay me for mine and Carolyn's tickets- Ok go with
out us."

I probably should have been forceful when I voiced my concern about Carolyn being too young for the show(not to mention I'm not a kid person and just didn't want her there, and I'm tired of my mom dragging Carolyn to places she's not appropiate, like oh car shopping)
But I tried to be nice and polite about it and she ignored me. I'm sending a response hoping that she calms down. I just hate how hard it is for me to spend time with my mother. I had fun with her when I took her to see Wicked for her birthday, but I get the feeling if I hadn't been the one buying the tickets she would have insisted on bringing Carolyn along too. Damnit all I want is an adult relationship with my mother. I do not want our outings to be Mom parading around showing off her granddaughter with me as Carolyn's caretaker.

I have a feeling that a lot of things are going to come to a head this weekend and there's going to be a lot of screaming, promptly followed by me having a good cry and lotsa booze.